Question 1

What is surrogacy?

Accepted Answer

Surrogacy is a family-building option where a woman, called a surrogate, carries and delivers a baby for intended parents who are unable to conceive or carry a pregnancy. The surrogacy process includes medical evaluations and psychological screening following ASRM guidelines, legal contracts outlining responsibilities and compensation, In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) procedures for embryo transfer, and regular prenatal care until delivery. Surrogacy provides a pathway to biological parenthood when pregnancy is not possible or medically safe.

Question 2

Who uses surrogacy?

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People turn to surrogacy for many personal and medical reasons:

Medical conditions: Uterine abnormalities, hysterectomy, high-risk pregnancies, or repeated IVF failures
LGBTQ+ families: Gay couples or individuals who require a gestational carrier
Single parents: Men who want biological children or women unable to carry a pregnancy
International restrictions: Families from countries where surrogacy is limited or banned
Career considerations: Situations where pregnancy may be risky or impractical

Question 3

How long does surrogacy take?

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On average, surrogacy takes 15–24 months from matching to birth. This includes a matching phase of 1-6 months to find and confirm a match, legal and medical preparation of 2-4 months for contracts, screening, and IVF preparation, IVF and embryo transfer of 1-3 months (may require multiple attempts), pregnancy of 9 months from successful implantation, and legal finalization of 1-3 months post-birth for final documentation. Timeframes vary based on medical factors, location, and whether an agency or independent route is used.

Question 4

How much does surrogacy cost?

Accepted Answer

In the U.S., the cost of surrogacy ranges from $100,000 to $200,000, depending on location and type of arrangement.

Breakdown of costs:

Surrogate Compensation$30,000-$50,000

Base compensation, excluding additional fees

Medical Expenses$20,000-$50,000

IVF, embryo transfer, and prenatal care

Legal Fees$5,000-$15,000

Contracts and parental rights

Agency or Platform FeesVaries

Based on services used

MiscellaneousVaries

Travel, insurance, and unexpected medical costs

Question 5

What are the different types of surrogacy?

Accepted Answer

There are six main types of surrogacy arrangements:

Gestational surrogacy: Embryo created from intended parents' or donors' genetic material
Traditional surrogacy: Surrogate uses her own egg
Agency surrogacy: Full-service agencies coordinate the process
Independent surrogacy: Direct arrangement between parents and surrogate
Altruistic surrogacy: No payment beyond medical expenses
Commercial surrogacy: Surrogate receives compensation

Question 6

Is surrogacy legal in the United States?

Accepted Answer

Surrogacy laws vary by state. Surrogacy-friendly states like California, Texas, and New York have clear laws allowing gestational surrogacy with enforceable contracts. Prohibited or highly restricted states including Louisiana, Michigan, Nebraska, Arizona, and Washington, D.C. ban paid surrogacy and may void surrogacy contracts. Most states fall in between, allowing surrogacy with certain conditions like requiring post-birth adoption or limiting contract enforceability. Always consult a reproductive law attorney in your state before beginning the process.

Question 7

Is surrogacy legal in Canada?

Accepted Answer

In Canada, altruistic surrogacy is legal under the Assisted Human Reproduction Act. Commercial surrogacy (payment beyond expenses) is prohibited.

Permitted reimbursements include:

Medical costs and insurance
Legal and counseling fees
Travel and accommodation
Lost wages with documentation
Maternity clothing and supplements

Consult a lawyer familiar with Canadian reproductive law for specific guidance.

Question 8

Do I need an agency for surrogacy?

Accepted Answer

No, many intended parents and surrogates choose independent/private surrogacy, while others prefer the full-service support agencies provide.

Agency-assisted surrogacy:

Screening and matching
Professional coordination
Established legal/medical networks
Ongoing support

Private surrogacy:

Lower costs (no agency fees)
Direct communication
Greater control and flexibility

Question 9

What is FindSurrogate.com and how does it work?

Accepted Answer

FindSurrogate.com is an online space where intended parents, surrogates, and agencies in the US and Canada can connect directly.

Here is how it works:

Browse verified profiles
Use advanced filters to find compatible matches
Communicate via secure messaging

Whether you're looking for an independent match or want to explore working with agencies, the platform gives you the tools and flexibility to move forward in the way that feels right for you.

Question 10

How is FindSurrogate.com different from traditional surrogacy agencies?

Accepted Answer

Unlike traditional surrogacy agencies, FindSurrogate.com is an independent surrogacy matching platform that lets you:

Connect directly with intended parents or surrogates
Manage your own conversations at your own pace
Avoid middlemen, high agency fees, and unnecessary delays
Access open profiles with full transparency
Share your story, set your preferences, and lay out your terms from the start

This way, you stay in control of your journey with confidence and ease every step of the way.

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