Surrogates have three main options to find intended parents: working with surrogacy agencies (most common, providing full-service support with 3-6 month matching timelines), independent matching through online platforms like MySurrogateMom.com and Facebook groups (faster with more control and direct communication), or fertility clinic referrals (limited matching services). This comprehensive guide walks surrogates through each option, comparing timelines, support levels, and best use cases. Learn how to create an authentic profile that stands out, what questions to ask prospective intended parents during first conversations, how compensation works in the US and Canada, red flags to watch for during the matching process, and how to make the final decision with confidence. Includes medical and lifestyle requirements aligned with ACOG guidelines, state-by-state legal considerations tracked by NCSL, pro tips for speeding up the process, and advice on building relationships that last beyond the birth.
